A priest from the Seoul diocese, who had a problem with alcohol when he
was a navy chaplain, recently received his doctorate in the treatment of
alcohol addiction. A secular paper, profiling his life, tells us that
he knew he was not
able to overcome the problem on his own, and admitted himself to a
hospital in 1988. The following year he began helping those who were
having difficulties with alcohol in the Seoul diocese.
The
article was based on an interview with the priest in his rectory. Why did he
start so late? he was asked. He said he felt he needed more knowledge than he had received
from his formal education and from his experience. Those days had been difficult for him, he said, and for
two months he was getting less than two or three hours of sleep.
The content of his doctoral dissertation was divided into five parts: dealing
with one's actions, cognitive behavior-- reflecting on the past, the
reality one faces in life, the healing powers of music, and of spirituality.
He mentioned that one of the groups of twenty he had conducted for
three months had 17 members who overcame the desire for a drink. With hospital
treatment while they were taking the drugs, they were able to refrain from drinking, but once they
left and without follow up sessions, they often began drinking again,
Excessive
drinking affects part
of the brain that has to do with thinking and acting, so telling
yourself to quit is not going to work, and is the reason help is
usually required.
He repeatedly mentioned that in Korea the culture does not make it easy
to refrain from drinking. When you go out to eat with your boss, for
example, and
he offers you a drink, it's difficult to refuse. The only way to avoid
the difficulty is not to
go out for that meal with the boss; after the drinking no one will
remember, the priest feels certain,
who should have been there and wasn't.
To the question what
does Catholicism say about drinking, he answered by quoting some
scriptural passages.
Catholicism is much more tolerant of drinking, but it
is very clear that
excess is not acceptable; moderation is the virtue that is taught.
It is not difficult to see, however, that Catholicism is much more
understanding of excess than Korean Protestantism. In the Korean
culture, with its tolerance of excessive drinking, this may not be such a
good thing.