Father, how do you cut your fingernails? An elementary school altar boy asked this question of the pastor after Mass. In the View from the Ark in the Catholic Times, the writer uses this incident to mull over an important attitude, often forgotten.
The
priest writer was taken aback by the question, trying to figure out what
was behind the question. Was there a method of cutting fingernails?
"My mother cuts my fingernails, I can see you cutting your left hand
fingernails but how do you do the right hand? Our school teacher drew
blood when he cut his fingernails." He wanted to know who was cutting
the priest's fingernails.
A fingernail clipper makes
the cutting a very precise and easy job. Some clippers when they cut, make no noise. He noticed with age the cutting of the
finger nails was not like it was. At the beginning he thought it
was the dull blade but one day the thought came that like all of
nature, age brings a toughness and brittleness to his
body and fingernails.
As children we remember that scars and
broken bones healed quickly. Our bodies were soft and pliable, our
spirit was supple, we didn't have any preconceptions, we accepted
freely and easily what was given. We were open to bold adventure. With
age we saw much of this disappear because we needed the toughness of
the body to withstand threats from outside, and to protect others.
Softness
is necessary but we can't make a flexible branch into a pole.
Hardness is necessary if we want to stand up to the stormy world in
which we live. However, softness is a distinguishing mark of life; death
is stiffness. Life is open to change and growth, and why we need to be pliable and soft. He acknowledges the possibility that hardness of the body may be for future
ages and for the good of other parts of our body.
However,
there is no need for our hearts to become hard. Often the way we
live not only does the body become hardened but our souls take on this
quality. Experience, knowledge, wisdom and courage, that comes with
age doesn't make us stronger, but the flattery, self-righteousness,
judging of others, our greed, and fear are hardening the muscles and tying our hands and feet.
The world we live in is
making us hard. Christians know that God's love is always being poured
into us which should make us soft and allow us to recover the suppleness of youth.
Isn't this why Jesus wants us to become like children. He concludes with
the wish that we all become like the child who wanted to know who cut
the priest's fingernails.