Reading was always considered a must in the educational process and
still is.The column:'Electronic World and the Book World' in the
Catholic Times revisits the importance of books in our lives. Books are a
person's best friend was often heard in the past, but to day we see
another kind of 'book' in a person's hand. Whether we have less reading
today than in the past is not easily determined, but that the reading
is different seems to be undeniable.
In her column, a
religious sister quotes a prisoner who spent over 10 years in
prison as saying it was his habit of reading that enabled him
to prepare for an unknown future. Habits prepare our landscape and
character. Neurologically speaking what we think about daily is forming who we are.We not only gain knowledge by reading but
our patience and endurance develops. The deeper our reading the deeper our
thinking, and maturer the personality we project.
She
believes that there is less reading not only among the children, but
among college students and adults. All that is necessary is to hear a
discussion among the college students: lack of confidence, difficulty
in expressing themselves in writing, no gleam in their eye,
no enthusiasm, at times she sees them as lifeless zombies. More surprising, when prizes are given and they receive stationery or daily
commodities there is joy, but even an expensive book brings
disappointment. A book means stress, something oppressive, similar to
receiving a text book. This has to change she says.
One
who likes to read will see a deepening of their powers of thinking. A
person who has not developed the habit of thinking deeply will find
themselves overcome with thoughts that take away their peace of mind. Persons
who are accustomed to deep thinking and reading will have intellectual
joy and delight, much stronger than any pleasure of the body.
Those
who are addicted to SNS, she says, are on average distracted every 3 minutes which has an adverse effect on the mental faculties. She recommends that the young and the old stop as soon as possible playing with their smart phones, from clicking on
the TV or computer as soon as one enters the house.Those who find it difficult to enjoy 10 minutes of leisure, stay away from gossiping, day dreaming, and being
overcome with loneliness she wants to introduce them to reading.
Open any book and start reading. You have lived up
to now without any problems? The problem is now. Start developing a
new habit. Like exercise, you work to build up your strength and continue, it is the last fort to
protect the brain from the digital world in which we live. Begin reading, without delay, and continue until your eyes will not permit it any
more.
A religious
sister columnist in View from the Ark introduces us to Jung Mo Sung a lay theologian who
emigrated to Brazil from Korea in 1966 and is well known as a
liberation theologian. He is a disciple of Franz Hinkelammert and Hugo
Assmann who have influenced, she says, Pope Francis in the way he sees
society. She reflects on a lecture she heard delivered by Jung Mo Sung.
Liberation
theology shows the idolization of money.The fundamental problem with
capitalism is the greed with which it is associated. Professor Sung
says the neoliberalism has entered our way of thinking and she was in sympathy with the way the professor examined and listed the problems associated with
capitalism. She was familiar with neoliberalism but not with any depth.
From the
time we get up in the morning what we see and hear incites our greed. Many go to the shopping centers not for what they need, but to satisfy their desires: others have it and we want it. We
have not fully discovered the possibilities of our i phone 5 but we want
to possess the new i phone 6. The catalyst that advances our
capitalistic system is the desire to imitate. The financial system of
the neoliberalism has entered deep into our lives and transformed
itself into a religion. The shopping malls become elegant
church buildings and the market transforms into a religion.
Religion
is directed to the everlasting life. Churches say this is something we
will achieve after death. But neoliberalism tempts us to believe that
we will have it here and now. Everything we would ever want is
here, now. The almighty market will be able to do everything for us. The present economic system is fostering problems between the rich and
the poor. God of the market is being monopolized by a few and is making the life of the poor more difficult.
Neoliberalism is using sacrifice to put our minds at rest. "Without
sacrifice we will not have salvation," which justifies the sacrifices
that the poor have to make. The logic of competition accepts the
sacrifice of the poor as a necessary step. The poor become the sacrificial lamb for those who want to make an earthly paradise.
We have the freedom to determine what kind
of life we choose to live. Who are we going to use as a model to
follow? Many choose to be rich as the idol to follow, which can't help but challenge the Christian, who follows our Lord. Daily our cravings are provoked and
Jesus continues to affirm: "No one can serve two masters; he will hate
the one and love the other (Matt. 6:24).
Catholics do less studying than the members of other religions is a well known fact. Among Catholics this secret which is not a secret has been know for some time. The Desk Columnist of the Catholic Times wants us to reflect on this reality. Many of the pseudo religions and our neighbors with religious beliefs know this, and make use of it in dealing with Catholics.
When the columnist was in school he remembers those that didn't have a taste for studies as they advanced in school were more frustrated and would be seen with those who did like to study. Was this a hope of learning something? The chances of this are slight.
We know from the New Testament that Jesus did a lot of teaching to those who followed him. As a child the columnist remembers thinking how concerned God must have been to have sent his son to us. Jesus' big task was to teach us, it was not to make us scholars but to have us understand his kingdom. Not difficult to accept.
Just looking over briefly sections of the New Testament we see Jesus teaching and giving examples to his disciples. Teachings about the Kingdom of God, the overcoming of temptations, the need for prayer,forgiveness, teaching with parables and opening the eyes of his disciples with understanding for his message were acts of a meticulous father and teacher.
Looking back on the life of Christ, even as a child Jesus showed us the efforts he made to study. He was in the temple talking with the lawyers of the law and debating with the Pharisees and showing them where they were wrong.
The word we use in Korean for study has its origins in Buddhism. The columnist tells us it meant to clean, to improve to cultivate, especially efforts to do this in their meditation practices. The word analyzed: shows a workman, a person making efforts to be a full person, what one was meant to be.
There are many Catholics who put up a wall when it comes to study.To put it simply after baptism they do little to deepen what they have received. The God the Pharisees believed in was not the God that Christ was preaching. In the kingdom of God we have entered at baptism we are meant to live with joy. We don't know why a person does not want to study, but what is easy to assume, he says, the joy of being in the kingdom here on this earth will not be as great without study.
A scholar on the culture of life writes in the Kyunghyang magazine
about a three day study and training program he conducted for 21 unmarried young
people in their twenties. Before the program he prepared a
questionnaire, and begins the article with some of the
results.
Have you had an sexual experience with
another? 11 said yes, 6 had a one night stand experience. Sexual
relations are unrelated to marriage, 8 said yes. How long after relating
with a person is sexual contact proper? after marriage 3, after a year
3, after 6 months 1, after 100 days 3, one month 2, after a
week 1, within one week having sexual contact, time is irrelevant 7.
The
writer well versed in what is going on within our culture in matters of
sex was greatly shocked at the results.They were active members of
the community: teachers, choir members and altar servers, and yet 29 percent had a one- night stand. This was hard to
believe. And asks do you think this is unique only to this parish?
The
young people who are immersed in this culture pick up their
understanding of sexuality from the culture: sex is for pleasure.
Religious beliefs and their parish activity have little influence on
their actions. Before they are able to consider and make a judgement on
good or evil, they have been exposed to TV, smart phones, and the
internet. For many sex is something to enjoy and all that is necessary
is the condom and contraceptive pills. But is it really that simple?
He
goes into detail on some of the feelings of guilt that a Catholic would
have and also the concern about the possibility of pregnancy on the
part of the girl.Condoms are not 100 percent protection and this causes a
great deal of worry on the part of the girl. A contraceptive mind
will not be helpful in being recollected and having concern for the spiritual. Unless the young people can discern what the culture has done
to justify the way they look on evil, the money that is spent in the pastoral care of the young will have little results.
He concludes the article with the observation that a vocation needs to be nurtured. A
priest needs at least 7 years of nurturing. A religious needs about 10
years before final vows. Marriage is also a vocation and what kind of
preparation do we give those who will be marrying? In Korea those preparing for marriage are required to receive 3 or 4 hours of
education. He feels this is a dereliction of duty on the part of the
Church.The first step in the pastoral care for the family should
begin with the preparation of our young people for marriage and have
this systematized within diocesan and parish programs.
"I don't know yet who I will marry. But I don't want to betray the person that I will
someday marry." A person who would say such words would be considered a
fool, and be shunned in the world in which we live. Therefore we need
to begin to educate so we will have many more with the courage to speak
out this way. This is the effort that the Church has to make.
A celebrity in Korea was asked how come he was so glib with his
words. His secret was to read books and the newspapers. His family was
poor so he never considered college; his eloquence, he says, comes from
reading. These are the words that the columnist, a religious sister,
uses to begin her column on the making of hidden spectators on SNS.
The
power of words comes from a person's character. Word and life have to
meet. When one speaks too much one doesn't have control over all the
words spoken. When she lectures for a few hours, at
the end she often feels empty. She says things that she herself is not able to
practice and is filled with shame. She says a lot of good things but at
the same time there are a lot of meaningless words that she utters.
Isn't this the reason the pope said:"Those who don't abuse with the tongue are saints."
SNS
at present overflows with complaints and abuse. According to
neurologists, she says, online is becoming overcome with negativity.
The internet more than in real life is rampant with lies and fraud. One
scholar went so far as to say that the more one is online we have an increase
of negativity, and the possibility of encountering harmful relationships. The ability to
control oneself will diminish, loneliness, depression, and stress will appear because of
the inability to control oneself.
How much of
what we hear on line do we pass on to others? Ordinarily do we pass on
the scandals we hear about celebrities and politicians? When we
are face to face with others we do not find it easy to just blurt out,
without thought, what we think, but why is it on SNS we have the ease of
saying whatever comes to mind?
We are spectators that's
why, she answers. A spectator knows what is going on in the world and
enjoys talking about it. A spectator is mostly concerned about
oneself. Sees from afar, whether it is the other, an incident or
oneself there is no responsibility for what is seen. Only the emotion
and thought is what is real: attached to one's feelings and
unconcerned about the feelings of another. The words of a spectator are
light and flippant. One is not involved directly, just a sightseer and
stays hidden in his or her place: not one to go on the stage for all
to see.
With this in mind we can see how SNS helps one
to hide in the group as a spectator. This is different from one who
reads, who becomes a participant: meeting of the author and the
reader.The participator is conscious of feelings and takes responsibility for them, more than feelings, however, we have likes and
dislikes expressed. Experience and knowledge is chewed over, purified discerned, chosen and
put in order.The participator has to be responsible to himself quite different from the spectator.
Family is the basic community where an individual is given the
necessary nutriments to grow up healthy. An article in the Kyunghyang
magazine gives us the problems that children face with a break up of the
family. We usually think of family as parents and children, but today
the makeup has many different configurations. In elementary school the
children are introduced to a variety of families: grandparents and
grandchild, persons living alone, one parent families, refugee
families from the North, multicultural families, families where one of
the children is head of the household and many others. Consequently, we
have a need to understand and have concern for this variety. Discord
between families and within families affects the children.
The
family begins with marriage. For a Catholic the marriage bond is an
indissoluble bond between father and mother encompassing the birth and
education of the children. Despite this reality we have couples not
able to overcome the difficulties they face and divorce. Besides the
trauma of divorce experienced by the couple, the coldness of the
society in which they live, and the harm done to the children all add
to the misfortune. Children have problems making known the divorce of
the parents. "Better would be the death of the spouse. With death you
hear words of consolation with a divorce the thoughts are about
maladjustment and personal faults."
Divorce scars the
children. In 2012 there were 114,300 divorces and of that number 60,300
had young children. These children are prone to anxiety, despondency,
guilt, shame, and similar emotional difficulties. This appears in their
adjustment to school life.The writer of the article would like to see
more interest in working with the children of these broken families to
give them resiliency to face the future. She would like to see more
study in these areas to help the children overcome the trauma of
divorce.
In her article she quotes an elementary school
teacher who experienced divorce of his parents as a young child, and
even now when he talks about the divorce of his parents tears come to
his eyes. He notices that many of the problem children in his classes
are the children of the divorced or with family problems. The children,
however do not want to talk about it, not even with their closest
friends. He wants the teachers to be conscious of this sensitivity of
the children of divorced parents, and would like to see programs for the
teachers. She also hopes the Synod next year will be conscious of the problems of the children of the divorced.
There are many programs for the divorced in our
society but no programs that are easily available for the children of the divorced. She would like to see these programs in the
educational process and in our churches.Many children of the divorced are depressed and full of anger which needs our concern. Divorced parents should make clear to the children that the divorce is not their fault, and help them to have confidence in themselves. She
concludes her article with the thought that there are many children
who are not living with their parents, and we need to be conscious of
this and be ready to help.
Homosexuality is not a topic you see discussed in the Korean press with any depth but with the recent Synod on the family, the Peace Weekly brings the topic to the attention of the readers. The columnist mentions the film Philadelphia, a bombshell in Hollywood in 1993 when it was released. A story of a homosexual who suffered brutal prejudice and contempt worse than death filled the screen: human dignity was trammeled. The film made a big impression on the columnist.
Twenty years have passed, and each nation will have different circumstances, but he doesn't think much has changed. Those with this orientation have a difficult time within society. The Church has acknowledged this difficulty in the Catechism of the Church. "They do not choose their homosexual condition; for most of them it is a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided (#2358).
However, the Church's voice on the ordeal of the homosexual person and raising the volume on what it has to say is difficult. The way society has accepted homosexual love and marriage has put a big burden on the Church and the reason the Church will be seen as passive in speaking about homosexuality. The columnist feels there is still some distance to go to overcome the animosity of society and the negative feelings of the homosexuals towards the Church.
He mentions the first preliminary position paper that showed compassion and understanding for the homosexual, but in the final paper some of the inviting language was changed which was not received well by the homosexual community. In the final paper the 2/3 majority was not achieved for the paragraph on homosexuality but the majority did accept what was written.
Some years ago there was a drama that showed the difficulties of the homosexual in Korean society. The son came out as a homosexual to his parents and the mother said to her husband crying: "she wanted to die. We don't want our child to be out in the middle of winter with a cold wind blowing without clothes, let us be a warm stove to him.... " It is clear our mother the Church needs to have this kind of mercy.
Homosexuality is contrary to natural law, a teaching of the Catholic Church and this we don't want to weaken. However, those who are suffering, the Church has to embrace and help heal their wounds, this is the self evident mission of the Church.
This is not only an issue with homosexuality. The Church's mission is to be pastoral and the Holy Spirit will show us the way to go. Pope Francis said the Church is like a field hospital and the columnist would like to see this mercy expressed to all who are in need of mercy.
