Addiction to Gaming a Serious Matter

A Religious Sister who studied media and teaches in a seminary starts her article in this month's Catholic Kyunghyang Magazine with a story that is hard to believe. The parents of a three month old baby girl were so taken up with raising a virtual girl on an internet game site that they neglected their own child, who died of malnutrition. This is only one of the very sad and shocking stories that result from some form of game addiction.

Do we know what is going on in this world of cyberspace? Some, like the parents of the baby who died, find it difficult to separate the real from the virtual; others find the virtual more real than the real world. The parents of the baby who died met on the internet, married, and were so taken up with raising the virtual girl in the world of cyberspace (MMORPG:Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game) that they left their real girl in the house unattended. The parents, spending the whole day in an internet cafe to play, were later arrested by the Korean Police for neglect.

Those who develop these games maintain that the players can construct their own world and stress the positive elements of the games: gaining confidence, enhancing motivation for study, developing a better self image, fostering creativity and the powers of imagination. In other words, a game that helps us grow into more accomplished human beings.

Sister, however, tells us that online gaming has also its dark side. It also changes the world we are in. It gives us a taste for fueling our competitive and gambling instincts. Its only strategy is to win. There is no place for sacrifice for the other, no place for growth through experiencing pain and disappointment or for any hope beyond the hope of winning at playing a game. The only goals are the power and pleasure of victory.

Studies have shown that those who are from the lower middle class are the most easily addicted to the games. Possibly, because of difficulties at home, lack of discipline and self respect, they try to forget it all in the virtual world of gaming.

The games are programmed in such a way that the more time you spend at gaming the more involved you become. To combat this tendency, the Sister has given 5 suggestions for parents to help keep their children from becoming addicted to gaming:

1) Parents should know something about how the internet functions.

2) Prepare a time-plan, deciding with their children how much time to spend playing the games.

3) Learn how to use online gaming in a proper way. Find out the story line and talk about it with the children.

4) Accompany the use of the internet with proper growth in emotion and mental health.

5) Use some of the parents' leisure time to be with their children, enjoying the outdoors and cultural aspects of the country.

Social Teaching's Importance in Catholicism

One of the Korean laymen who can be considered the father of the study of Catholicism and Society has retired from his professorship at a university in Seoul and has made his feelings known in the Catholic Peace Weekly: "The topic of Religion and Society has been outside the interest of most people and now that a new horizon is beginning to appear it gives me great satisfaction. Those who will be coming to the field I hope will delve deeper into this field of Religion and Society."

The professor, before his 40-year study of the role of the Church in society, was inspired as a young man to take up this study by seeing so many different religions living peacefully together in Korea. But he soon found it to be lonely work; few were interested in what he was doing. Though the topic has been discussed endlessly; sadly, there has not been much progress. The professor, however, has not been embarrassed to point out the failings of the Church in implementing its social teachings, and the crisis that it faces. It is time, he says, to work for reform and come to a new level in the growth of the Church.

He makes clear that the Catholic Church has had a numerical growth that is exceptional but the interior growth has not kept up with the external growth. Our society, with its philosophy of growth at any price, has grown materially, but the Church has also moved along with this same thinking in many areas. Many in the Church have not been able to follow the dictates of reason and faith to foster the growth of a healthy Catholic Culture.

In recent years, however, the Church has shown some interest in the Yongsan problem--where citizens were violently removed from their homes and place of work--and in the recent 4-River Development Project. It is the work of the Church to be concerned with what is happening in society and to do what it can to have society develop in a healthy manner.

There is much talk these days on the propriety of working for the external growth of the Church when there is not a similar internal and spiritual growth. The bishops will have to take notice and work to strengthen the catechumenate and help the Christians to understand the social teaching of the Catholic Church and the reasons this teaching was developed.

Many Catholics do not adequately understand that the social teaching of the Church is an essential part of Catholic faith.

From a Choir Director to a Loving Pastor

In the recent issue of the Catholic Magazine, a priest who had spent most of his early life in the pursuit of musical knowledge gives an apologia for his life that was extremely interesting and insightful. He wanted to take a break from his seminary studies to study music but was told to finish seminary first. After a short time in pastoral work, he went on to study music in Italy, in the States, as well as here in Korea.

In the article he mentions that he was a professional musician who, after many years teaching music in the seminary and college, was assigned to a parish where he was able to use the music skills he had learned. But this time the members of the choir were his parishioners. However, this did nothing to change his method of teaching: when they did not do what he wanted--he would get angry. After all, he told himself, when he was teaching music that was the way he dealt with the members of the choir. He was the one who would point out the tone, the breathing, the timber, the timing, and when they were not right he would have them practice until they were right. He would not listen to objections. There was one way of doing it--his way--and he would push them until it was achieved.

Because of this drive for perfection, he had great difficulty in the parish dealing with people who didn't see it his way, especially those who weren’t interested in perfection. Doing it passably, adequately, was not to his taste. He could not accept the thinking that doing something in any fashion was proper. In the parish, he did not see the good that parishioners were doing but only the things that needed correction. Instead of praising, he was always criticizing. When he asked that something be done and he did not get the kind of response he was expecting, the good relationship with the person disappeared, replaced with his own angry response.

With this kind of relationship with the people of his parish, what kind of response could he expect to receive? Questions like this finally forced him to face himself as he was being seen by his parishioners: not a very loving pastor who took pains to be concerned with his parishioners but a pastor who was always finding fault. It was a revelation to him but one that made him realize that he didn’t have the necessary finesse that was necessary to deal with people successfuly. It came late but he wanted to make a change and did so by taking courses to improve his social skillls.

He took the Seven Habits Workshop, the Carnegie Training Programs, and kept up on his reading--applying all of it to his parish work. He knows now that it is possible to change, and it was impressive to see his humility when he realized that the problems he had were not the fault of the parishioners. It was a new way of seeing for him, and he was grateful for the change. In the article, he pointed out that he has become the proselytizer of a new way of dealing with others. Seeing the change in himself, he wants all of us to realize that to change is a very normal part of life. When our Christians are being changed for the better, so do those in pastoral work need to change.

A New Face for the Myeong Dong Cathedral?

An item in today's newspaper mentioned plans to develop the area around the Myeong Dong Catholic Cathedral in Seoul. The plans are for the construction of the underground parking and two
9-story aboveground buildings. The diocese has been thinking of this for many years. Cardinal Cheong has approved the plan for the construction, and the diocese hopes they can begin in October of this year.

At present, cars are permitted to approach the Church but future construction will make the area around the Cathedral a-no-car area. The two buildings will house the many offices that are now scattered here and there. The new plans for the Cathedral are an attempt to make the Cathedral grounds attractive and convenient for the many Catholics in the Diocese, including a plaza, common before churches in many parts of Europe. The Diocese plans to be ecologically sensitive with trees and other greenery out in front of the Cathedral.

The Cathedral is considered a National Treasure and historical site, and has to receive approval for any construction by the Cultural Properties Administration. The administration was given information on the construction but has postponed any decision until they have time to visit and examine the reports that were submitted. They will have to determine whether there is a possibility of damage to the Cathedral from problems that come with the building of high rises.

Many see problems with the construction. The laws on building near National Treasures are complicated and there are those who feel that the view of the Cathedral will be sacrificed
and that building underground parking lots will demand the use of piles, which will possibly do damage to the Cathedral.

The Cathedral is a landmark in Seoul and a must-see for many visitors. So the City will be very much involved in the study of the feasibility of the planned construction. The Cathedral was,in the 1970s and 1980s, a focal point for the democracy movement in Korea and played an important role in social development and the expansion of human rights.Factors that the Diocese
will also value very highly, and will make sure that the wishes of the Cultural Properties Administration are followed.

Korean Bishops' Statement On Life

Below is part of the statement from the Korean Bishops during their recent assembly. They are getting some criticism from some of the press on "being all knowing" and instigating the public against the project. The bishops have not been so publicly unified on any one social project, since we have moved into democracy. The editorial in the Catholic Times said that the bishops were sending an alarm to the society in which we are living.

Some of the press is telling the government to work to get public opinion on their side. The future will tell us how successful their efforts are. Most of the public is opposed to the government's plans. Part of the reason is the lack of information, and not having specialist in the field of ecology on their side.

"We, all the bishops gathered at the 2010 Spring General Assembly of the Catholic Bishops' Conference of Korea, are concerned that the 'Four Major Rivers Project' which is nowadays being carried out in many places across the country simultaneously will cause serious damage to our natural environment.

We have listened to an explanation for the project by a government working-level task force. Still we cannot understand why the government, mobilizing much heavy equipment and evading legal procedures without a national consensus, has to push forward in such a hasty manner this large-scale construction project which may cause irrevocable damage to our land. When such indiscreet development of nature for the unsatiable greed of human beings does harm to ourselves and to future generations, who among our contemporaries will assume responsibility?

In his recent encyclical letter Caritas in Veritate, Pope Benedict XVI said: "The environment is God's gift to everyone, and in our use of it we have a responsibility towards the poor, towards future generations and towards humanity as a whole. …… because the natural environment is more than raw material to be manipulated at our pleasure; it is a wondrous work of the Creator containing a 'grammar' which sets forth ends and criteria for its wise use, not its reckless exploitation" (n.48). By seeking immediate short-term profits through indiscriminate development, we should not fall into the error of annihilating the precious works cultivated by the Creator over so many centuries.

In this difficult situation, we, the Catholic bishops, urge reflection and conversion of the whole society, including ourselves, and we pray with one accord that government authorities and all Koreans will choose a conscientious and responsible path for ourselves and for future generations.

God has taught us from the very beginning: "Here, I have today set before you life and prosperity, death and doom. …… I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Choose life, then, that you and your descendants may live" (Dt 30,15.19)."

March 12, 2010

Catholic Bishop's Conference of Korea

Cyberspace, a World We Can't Ignore

Korea is well advanced in the electronic world of cyberspace. From the early 1990s, many parishes started using the Internet to setup websites, to contact their Catholics, and to help inform and educate.

While many found the parish websites very helpful in doing pastoral work, within a short time many of these same parishes found that few were returning to the sites and some were shut down. Why did this happen? A priest who is responsible for the public relations work in his diocese had a column in the Catholic Times giving us some answers.

He compares the websites, which in Korean are often called ''world houses,'' to the parish itself. To keep the parishes running smoothly takes money, a lot of time and effort; the same is true for the cyberspace home that has been created and opened to the public.

For a site to function efficiently a group of workers is usually needed to be responsible for its daily functioning, and in many parishes there are one or two who function in this capacity. Ideally, four or five would insure that the website is continually up-to-date. Appointing a committee to be in charge of the various groups would also be a good idea.

Having contact with someone with technical knowledge of computers would be of enormous help but those who have an interest and a passion for what they are doing will be sufficient. Ultimately, whether the website is a success or not will depend on the frequent, and even daily, changing and updating of the contents of the site.

It is also necessary not only to get information to the Christians using the site but to get their help in supplying information that would keep the site be relevant and a help to them in living their lives.

Cyberspace is no longer only a new and exciting secular diversion but has also become a serious and important part of our Christian life. The Church has urged us to get involved; the possibilities are limitless and according to some, will greatly influence, for good or ill, the kind of spiritual world we will live in. Since we all live in the world of cyberspace, this is reason enough to make the most of it.

The Absurdity of the Resurrected Life

In a sermon, I read recently a Korean priest mentioned an anecdote that was written up as an episode in the life of the Buddhist monk Chun Seong (1891-1977). The Buddhist monk was taking a train at Seoul Station. Many of those waiting for the train were greeted by a Christian shouting: "Believe in Jesus! Believe in Jesus." He came to the Buddhist monk and said: "the Lord has risen, believe in the Lord Jesus." The monk after a short period of silence said to the Christian: " What, died and returned to life? Up until now the only coming back to life is what happened to me. " Those who were within listening distance all began to laugh and clap their hands. The Christian turning red, ran off.

If resurrection is coming back to life then rebirth is a form of resurrection but quite different from the Christian idea. Reincarnation is an attractive belief because it does not believe in annihilation but the coming back to life in a form prepared for in this life. Justice is built into the very belief of reincarnation. You prepare to become part of the Divine and you do not stop this rebirth until you have succeeded in living the correct life. In Christianity, everything depends on our belief in resurrection, not a return to this life but a different life. Everything follows from it.

Christian Resurrection is not an easy belief and St. Paul tells us: "Eye has not seen, ear has not heard, nor has it so much as dawned on man what God has prepared for those who love him." Today we celebrate this feast of Resurrection. Jesus has given us the reasons for living the resurrected life daily, until we are born into the new life of eternity. A belief that is foolishness "complete absurdity" to many, but a great joy to Christians. Alleluia, Alleluia.



































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