
Alcoholism,
prevalent and a problem in most societies of the world, is also rampant
here in Korea with over a million and half alcoholics and, in recent
years, an increasing number of women alcoholics, according to a recent
article in the Kyeongyang Magazine. It raises the question: Is Korea a
country where alcohol consumption is encouraged?
Though
alcoholism is a chronic and disabling disease, there are therapies that
have been successful in treating the problem. In Korea, of those who
have tried to overcome the drinking habit with a hospital stay, more
than 80 percent return to drinking within six months. And only 12.4
percent are able to stay away from alcohol for more than two years. 13
small groups are currently devoted to helping alcoholics, two of them
specifically for women. The article introduces us to one of these
groups, which is registered with the Seoul city government and
affiliated with the Catholic Women's Welfare Association of the Seoul
diocese.
Regina
Lee, along with members of the Alcoholics Anonymous group they belonged
to, decided to start a home for women, and were fortunate to receive
help from many sources. With women, Regina says, the progress of the
disease is quicker and more difficult to see; the harm done, the stress
involved, and the prejudice against women is greater, which makes
efforts to help more difficult. Before the alcoholism can be treated,
says Regina, there is the environment, the pain, and the sad history
that has to be considered and resolved.
At
Happiness House, the name they have given their home, they are all
dealing with the same problem: the worry, the grievances and the pain;
each of them trying to help each other to return to society. Over 90
persons have passed through the house, with some meeting once a a month
to share stories about their new life. This is a great help to the
group, she says. The aim of Happiness House is to encourage those who
have overcome their problem to help others do the same, as one such
person did by becoming a social worker.
The
House now has a project to help those leaving the House to find gainful
employment. They are selling quilts and environmentally friendly soap
to finance the project. They know that those who have left the House
after successfully overcoming the drinking habit must have the support
of their families if they are to continue a life of sobriety. Alcoholism
can't be overcome by oneself. There is a need to hear words of
affection and concern to replace the emptiness and suffering they feel, and from which they want to be free.
Regina
concludes the article with an invitation to those who have tried many
ways to overcome their dependence on alcohol and failed. She invites
them to come and knock on the door of Happiness House.