Patience and Compassion for Peace

A priest member of the National Reconciliation Committee in a column of the Catholic Times writes about the problems in searching for peace on the Korean Peninsula among the citizens.

"Father, Sister, please don’t do this!" It happened on a spring day last year when the COVID-19 situation was not a prominent news item. Priests and nuns participated in the Peace Campaign to End the Korean War as members of the National Reconciliation Committee. They were in front of the Seoul Cathedral getting signatures. One woman passing by could not just ignore the situation. Crying and entreating those gathering the signatures obviously also a believer:  "North Korea should denuclearize first" before declaring the end of the war.
 
When conducting the National Reconciliation School, a major activity of the National Reconciliation Committee, we often run into a barrier called "South-South conflict." Just as you have to look into an affected area to heal a disease, lectures deal with the realities on the peninsula because opinions on the cause and solution are sharply divided among believers. However, we cannot turn away from the hostility and fear of this divided land.
 
Even though Jesus’ disciples were divided and often quarreled, we were able to understand the meaning of reconciliation and peace through the death of the cross. The "South-South conflict" can also be a journey to understand the peace of Christ.
 
The peace of Christ is not 'peace' without conflicts, where the strong are oppressed or the weak are silent. Rather, it may be closer to a process in which each other changes by understanding the conflict we face.
 
Mahatma Gandhi of India, who awakened the value of nonviolent resistance in an era of injustice, emphasized that we must be wary of violence even in the moment of seeking justice and truth. "The pursuit of truth must not be violence to someone's enemy, for what appears to one person as truth may appear to another as an error. Instead, with patience and compassion, we must keep ourselves away from error."
 
With the beginning of Lent, and the coming presidential election we will choose the future of our country. Economic development is important, but the writer hopes that choices will be made for a more just and peaceful society.
 
The belief that one is right is important, but he hopes that a democracy in which different opinions are respected is maintained. Let's pray together as believers who do not lose patience and compassion in a divided world.
 

Meditation And Metanarratives

Humans think. Philosophers discuss it. Opinions on the subject are plentiful, methods easy to difficult are explained. Simply it's what is called meditation, reflection, thought, contemplation, prayer, pondering, trying to make sense of what humans can't help but not do in some form. 

 

Confucius is quoted as saying: "The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large." Christians are familiar with the words of St. Paul: "Finally, brothers, fill your minds with everything true, everything that is noble, everything that is good and pure, everything that we love and honor, and everything that can be thought virtuous or worthy of praise" (Phil.4:8).

 

Some meditate, to reduce stress, gain peace of mind and heart, improve health, and other benefits with different forms of meditation. They may be byproducts but not the main reason a Christian meditates. The hope is to deepen their relationship with God using reason, thoughts imagination, emotions, memory.

 

In meditation, eureka moments are often experienced. Some area of life is seen in a different light; judgments made and plans to realize them in daily life. Meditation helps one to grow as a human being and live a fuller, more Christ-like life. 

 

This kind of meditation doesn't dispense with reason, doesn't spend time on the 'how' of meditation but on the 'what': trying to see God as he sees us, getting rid of deceptions, and opening ourselves to God's working in life. This worldview makes the meditation completely different from those who don't have this insight.

 

'Metanarratives' are rarely envisioned in modern life. However, in meditation, these master narratives come to mind and give meaning and a context not clearly seen before the meditation. It's an intuition that lights up dark areas of life. When meditating the vision is not restricted; it's God's world, not our world. A metanarrative (also called grand narrative) is a bigger picture or story that gives context, meaning, to all of life.

 

"Listen Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The second is this: You must love your neighbor as yourself". (Mk 12:29). In this brief statement, we are presented with a Christian understanding of the self— five areas of concern: body, mind, heart, soul, and social.

 

Life is easily compartmentalized. Life is concerned for the whole person, not body, mind, heart, and soul as unrelated to each other and other human beings. All important in daily life on this earth is harmony among the five aspects of life. Without this harmony peace and joy will not be easily achieved. A metanarrative that meditation helps to achieve.

 

The best should not be an enemy of the good for as GK Chesterton said: "if a thing is worth doing it's worth doing badly" rather than not at all. Metanarratives may be unacceptable to many but a blessed gift in meditation that prepares for the journey of life to the 'Word' and Oneness. The more integrated we become the better for us and the world.

 

May Lent be a blessed and profitable one for all.

Beware Of Idols

A priest working in Evangelization and Human rights for his diocese writes in Bible and Life magazine on Idols.

He begins with several examples to make his point. As a seminarian, he remembers the earth soccer field turned into a grass field. After the change, a fence went around the field waiting for the grass to grow. They finally got permission but they were not to use soccer shoes. Because of the number of accidents they allowed the soccer shoes and the grass soccer field returned to an earth field.

They were told to end the Sunday Mass within an hour. The choir members found it difficult to meet during the week so they wanted to meet after the 10:30 am Mass on Sundays. The writer asks why are they practicing in the first place? 

Often we make the means more important than the end. We put the cart before the horse. The playing field is for the students and not the students for the playing field. The choir is for the Mass and not the Mass for the choir. Studies are to help students why do we have so many overcome by pressure and no desire to live? Why do persons become slaves of money, citizens sacrificed for the nation?

When the means become the end we have a case of what we call idolatry. This was often seen in the Old Testament when the goal of one's actions was hidden by the means and often replaced by the means. We saw this in the temptation of Jesus at the beginning of his public life. Material goods, power, and prestige take the place of God. We are living in a time where this is common practice.

What is the reason for mixing up means and end? The writer sees two reasons: first one's desire is projected onto the means and seen as an end. The second is the means are so attractive they hide the purpose.

Idols are the essence of desire. Overcome with the desire for gain, material goods are no longer a means to live a good life but an end in themselves. Power is no longer to help others but to rule over others; honors not a light to the world but of a person's worth. Jesus overcame idols by carrying out the will of God.

Idols always glitter and attract. It's not the finger pointing towards the moon that should get our attention but suppose the finger was decorated with jewels what would grab our attention?

To free ourselves from idol worship it's not just distancing ourselves from the idol but obedience to God and humility. This brings to mind sacraments. Unlike idols, the means to fully reveal the original purpose is nothing other than the sacraments! There are typically seven sacraments in our church, but in fact, everything that reveals God or his grace can be called a sacrament. The opposite of idolatry can be the sacramental life.

 

But not only the seven sacraments but all of creation can be seen as a sacrament and lead us to God. Perhaps the reason why many people in this world do not recognize God and are in idolatry is that we do not live the sacramental life in which God is revealed. 

We should seriously reflect on whether our church has now become an idol rather than a sacrament, just as when the finger adorned with jewels prevents us from seeing the moon.

 

Dying Alone

 

In the recent Catholic Times the editorial and featured article was on dying alone. In Asia dying a natural death in old age (or timely death) was considered one of the five blessings. Dying alone would be the very opposite of what a person would desire. 

 

It is a dictionary definition of 'death of loneliness' when a person living alone gets sick and dies without his family or neighbors knowing.  What is clear is that it is a lonely death. The so-called 'death without mourning', in which no one is with you in the process of dying, and no one remembers the deceased even after death.

 

Looking at the statistical indicators, the number of people who died alone increased more than threefold (308%) in 10 years from 1025 in 2012 to 3,052 in 2020 and 3159 last year. As there are 6.16 million single-person households (2020), accounting for 30% of the total households, it is estimated that there will be not a few deaths of loneliness that are mentioned in the statistics. 

 

By age, the number of deaths aged 70 or older is the highest at 1,226. It was followed by 619 people in their 50s, 909 people in their 60s (489 people under 65 years old, 420 people under 65 to 69 years old), 245 people in their 40s, and 66 people under 40s. By gender, 76% men  21% women.

What is notable in statistics is that those in their 50s and 60s account for the largest portion of the age group of deaths. This can be attributed to the economic isolation that middle-aged men suffer from unemployment and family breakdown due to early retirement.

It is also worth paying attention to the increase in the number of deaths without family or friends under the age of 50. The number of deaths without association in the age group doubled from 165 in 2012 to 311 last year. In particular, it should be noted that last year's statistics came from a situation where it is more difficult to find lonely deaths due to the influence of COVID-19.

 

The Lone Death Prevention Act came into effect in April 2020, and although it is mandatory to conduct a fact-finding survey, it is not being implemented properly. In a situation where there is no dedicated department for lonely deaths and the budget increase has not been done properly, it is impossible to expect the government to have a practical countermeasure. 

 

The death of loneliness is still a blind spot in our society. So the church has to step in. Pope Francis declared on January 2021, the World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly, celebrated each year on the fourth Sunday of July, coinciding with the feasts of the Blessed Virgin Mary's parents and Jesus' grandparents, Sts. Joachim and Anne. The anniversary was established as a day close to the day to commemorate Saints Joachim and Anna, the grandparents of Jesus, expressing the will of the  church to be with the elderly.

 

Some parishes and parishes provide pastoral support for the elderly living alone, but that is not enough. Now, the church must come up with multi-directional pastoral measures for the death of loneliness, including the death of young people. It is hoped that the 'elimination of loneliness' will become a significant part of the church’s journey with the marginalized.

Religion And Intellect

To read the world accurately and to proclaim the truth and value of the gospel persuasively, the church needs a willingness to communicate with the world and its wise men. Today, the term 'listening church' is often used. In a world where there is a strong tendency to assert and teach, the act of listening and learning is an important virtue. In the Catholic Times, the director of the Catholic Culture and Theology Institute gives the readers some thoughts on this important subject.
 
However, the act of listening requires a lot of effort. Listening includes the attitude and ability to hear spoken and unspoken words. Listening should be able to accurately read the true meaning and intentions contained in the words and stories of others. Listening is an act of precise reading. In the context of the church, listening is not just people's thoughts.
 
The object of listening is above all God and the will of God. Listening is reading the Bible and reading the will of God in history and life. Finding and reading the will of God in the Bible, in the historical tradition of the Church, and in today's life, involves a process of interpretation and discernment. Interpreting the Bible, understanding church traditions, and discerning today's world are not simple tasks. 

Listening is a high-level task that involves the act of reading and discerning. It is always difficult to read accurately, to discern delicately. Discernment is a delicate and accurate reading rather than judgment and criticism. Discernment is for a clear understanding of the will of God. Reading the world, reading the signs of the times, has become more difficult in today's complicated society. To read and identify complex societies, complex people, the humanities, social sciences, natural science competencies, and intelligence are required. Modern society and culture are too complex to be read through the eyes only of traditional philosophy and theology. The lack of intellectual capacity to read the changing world is often felt in the church.
 
The world is changing rapidly. It is not easy to read the times while keeping up with rapid changes. The phenomena of human life, which have become very complicated through the development of science, technology, and media culture, are difficult to analyze and read-only with the capacity of the church.

In a column, modern church historian Massimo Faggioli painfully points out the lack of intelligence and literacy often found in today's churches. To read the world accurately and to proclaim the truth and value of the gospel persuasively, the church needs an open attitude to communicate more with the world and learn from the wise men of the world. But today's church is moving in the opposite direction.

Faggioli criticizes the church for "intellectual disarmament in the face of great cultural challenges." He warns that intellectual fervor is disappearing in the church and only negative nuances of pietism are intensifying. Of course, pietism itself is a precious stream in religion. But sometimes pietism operates in the form of formalism and austerity. Distorted pietism that emphasizes only religious feelings is in danger of being reduced to an ideological religion based on hate and exclusion.

The lack of religious intellect in the church comes from a variety of causes. To be honest, it is difficult to read and discern the world while accurately reading and interpreting the traditions of faith. The church's capacity alone cannot keep up with the rapid changes in the world. In the flow of change, there is a risk that you may even lose your identity. That is why the church may have taken a strategic attitude to focus on its own business. However, it is arrogant to focus only on religious traditions and reject the culture of the world as mere secularism. The church must always carry the religious tradition and the culture of the world together.
 
The absence of religious intellect in the church, Faggioli argues, is related to clericalism. He talks about the problems of seminary education. It is pointed out that today's seminary education focuses on reinforced character education and psychological aspects as a preventive method against the sexual scandal of the clergy. This tendency can inevitably lead to neglect of intellectual education in theology and humanities. Faggioli diagnoses that the absence of strict intellectual training for clergy and the aging of high-ranking clergy are undermining the church's ability to accurately read the times and discern them through the eyes of faith.
 

Looking back on history, the intellect has not always played the right role within the times. It is not uncommon for intellect and knowledge to be reduced to empty knowledge because they are not connected with life. In the modern capitalist society, there are many cases where intellect and knowledge collide with power and capital and do not function as a proper social force. Moreover, in today's era, emotions and desires are more important than reason. So, paradoxically, it is an era in which reason is needed.
 
Aren't we witnessing the phenomena created by many in the present generation who are faithful to their emotions and desires? In politics, economy, society, and culture, reason seems to have disappeared and only emotions and desires remain. He wants to emphasize the role of intelligence (reason) again. The shining tradition of Catholicism has always considered faith and intellect (reason) as two axes.
 
The resurrection of the intellect does not mean the return of intellectualism. Intellectualism, which emphasizes the superiority of intelligence and knowledge, is nothing more than the arrogance of the intellectuals at one time. This is an era in which religious intelligence, not intellectual supremacy, is desperately needed. Faith includes reason, but intellect is always secondary. Faith and life come first. Knowledge comes from life. As an intellectual act, theology is a secondary work. Theology cannot precede faith, but theology is essential for proper faith. The absence of theology that can read and discern the signs of the times is evidence of the absence of religious intelligence in the church. In fact, isn't Catholic theology, by its very nature, the product of an effort to read tradition and the era at the same time? 

The intellect to study is urgently required. In an era in which knowledge has been reduced simply to the acquisition of information, and study has been reduced to a means of realizing desires, isn't the ideal of Catholic faith that paradoxically emphasizes the unity and balance between intellect and faith more fascinating? When literacy is developed in a community, it becomes a community that can think and judge. A time when the religious intellect is desperately needed for listening, reading, and discerning.

Corona Pandemic and Mental Health

 ‘Corona black.’ refers to a psychological state that feels hopeless, frustrated, gloomy as well as helpless as the COVID-19 situation continues. So begins a featured article in the Catholic Times on the mental state of many of the citizens.

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In the early stages of the corona outbreak, 'corona blue', meant anxiety and depression due to the risk of infection and social distancing, became 'corona red' expressing anger, and now it has reached 'corona black', where even hope cannot be found. In fact, one in five people is already in the Corona Blue situation, and can fall into Corona Black at any time. What role can and should the church role in these times? 

 

Rosa, a woman in her fifties, said last October, she wanted to let go of everything. She was living the  exact opposite of what she had dreamed of —her continuing feud with her husband, and  ill health of her children. Normally, she would have overcome depression and endured the difficulties in her parish life, but even that was not easy due to Corona. It was difficult for her to find someone to talk to, or freely go somewhere. She did receive spiritual counseling, and  is now living happily in search of the Lord's will even in the midst of difficult times.

 

As the COVID-19 situation continues for over two years, more and more people are complaining of helplessness. People complained of depression and frustration from the anxiety they might be infected. Continuing daily restrictions and broken human relationships have led to the expression of this emotion in anger, and in such a situation, people are showing dismay,  not finding the possibility of recovery.

 

According to the December results of the "Corona 19 National Mental Health Survey" released by the Ministry of Health and Welfare last month, 1 in 5 Koreans was at risk of depression, and more than 1 in 10 were thinking of suicide. According to the results of the survey conducted by the Korea Trauma Stress Society on 2,063 adults aged 19 to 71, the rate in the depression risk group was 18.9% and the rate of those who had suicidal thoughts was 13.6%. The  national mental health is not improving.

 

Loss of control, not being able to do something at will, has a significant impact on people's feeling of helplessness. Humans are beings with free will, and when in control of their lives they better find the meaning of life  and gain generative power. However, the situation does not get better and shows no sign of improvement. 

 

In a  research report of the "Corona 19 National Mental Health Survey" in the second half of 2020 by the Ministry of Health and Welfare, people were under the greatest stress when "planned things did not go as planned" among various situations. This is higher than the stress caused by 'economic difficulties due to reduced income and household debt' and 'confusion caused by inaccurate information or 'fake news'. 

 

A professor  pointed out in an academic paper titled "Consideration on Corona and Happiness in Daily Life," that not only quarantined people but also ordinary citizens are experiencing depression and lethargy as they face major changes in their daily lives. He explained: "The experience of temporary deprivation of free movement and physical freedom due to quarantine can be a factor that makes it embarrassing and difficult for individuals to control themselves."

 

Another professor in a nursing school emphasized that 'intentional ruminations' are helpful when daily stress  occurs. To think deeply about the meaning and purpose of life and  deliberately recalling  the trauma experience helps understand the event. People can positively change their lifestyle that affects happiness.

 

To this end, it is the role of the church to help people overcome feelings of helplessness, show them some light, the meaning of life, faith and being with them as companions. This is because Christians are people who seek hope in despair, discover God's will in adversity, and develop faith in God, themselves, and neighbors as a community.

 

In one of the dioceses a parish priest has been running a parish spiritual counseling center since February of last year. Any one can get help with healing. "The church should show its shepherd's devotion, not to manage believers, but a time to look for those who have gone over the fence and lost their way. The church needs with sincere mercy find the lost and wandering sheep.

Malicious Comments on the Internet

The number of people taking their lives due to malicious comments in cyberspace is increasing. So begins an article in the Catholic Peace Weekly.

Let's look at cases of injury before the National Assembly in recent years. In addition, the efforts that society and the church should make to solve this problem, and how the church literature sees the ethical issues in cyberspace and the cases of damage caused by malicious comments.
 
On Feb. 4th,  a volleyball player belonging to a famous club was found dead at his home. He received many messages and malicious comments after every game, difficult for him to accept.  A woman active on YouTube made the same choice at the end of last month. She suffered severe depression from numerous malicious comments and rumors. Earlier in 2019, a singer and actress died by their own hand in succession.
 
Malicious slander on the Internet was the main cause and the ‘Malicious Comment Prevention Act’ was born. As criticism of the comments on entertainment news grew, large Korean portals removed comments on entertainment news in March and October 2019. As a result, the malicious comments seemed to have calmed down a bit, but it was not correct.
 
Rather, following the various social networking services (SNS): Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram, malicious comments penetrated wider and deeper. In the past, it was mainly aimed at celebrities, but recently, sports players, YouTubers, and the general public are increasingly exposed to malicious comments.
 
To break the cycle of social harm caused by malicious comments, institutional changes are necessary. In the current law, only some of the seven types of cyberbullying can be punished severely. In a post on his Facebook page, a member of the Democratic Party of Korea said, "Cyberbullying as stipulated in the law is not just a problem for young people." We need to listen to the criticism to change the atmosphere and culture of society.
 
A professor, recently said in an interview: "The structural cause of social inequality, the social-psychological ways of expressing social dissatisfaction based on anonymity, and the media and  political environment work in a complex way in online malicious slander." We need to resolve the conflicts in our society. Another professor viewed the psychology of people who habitually commented with malicious comments as a kind of pathological obsession and urged them to solve their problems. “People who use malicious comments excessively feel they have exceptional intellectual qualities. "But in reality come from inferiority  or are negative defense mechanisms, interpreted as pathological symptoms."
 
In 2002, the Catholic Church emphasized the importance of proper use of new media and Internet ethics through two documents, 「Church and the Internet」 and 「Internet Ethics」.“Teaching about the Internet and new technologies means more than just teaching techniques. Young people must learn to behave properly in cyberspace, make sensible judgments based on sound ethical standards on what they find in cyberspace, and  use new technologies for their own personal development and for the benefit of others”
 
Based on these documents, experts within the church said that the church should be more active in cultural ministry to change the culture of excessive malicious comments. The former president of the Korean Catholic Lay Apostolic Association, said, “If anything goes too far, it will hurt or inflict damage. We need to broaden the scope of our participation. The digital world is easily accessible due to anonymity. Expressions of anger appearing in malicious comments  is a consequence of the culture of death."