The vocation director of the Incheon diocese, Fr. Matthew Cho  Myeong-yeon, has just written his seventh  book which many received in  the mail a few days ago. Fr. Matthew has a very popular blog at  http://www.bbadaking.com, which he keeps updating. He is kept busy  with his vocation work, the blog (nicknamed Butter King), and his  writing.
In one of the essays in the recent  book, he recounts clicking on the TV to see the rebroadcast of a popular  drama, wanting to find out what people liked about it. The drama dealt  with overcoming the difficulties that surrounded the  main characters and the tender love they had for each other. The viewers   were captivated by  the story, he believes, because they longed for the  same love and  happiness they found depicted in the drama.
Most of us do not  appreciate the love and happiness that is present in our own lives,  most often thinking it less than ideal. Fr. Matthew feels this  way of thinking is an illusion. The love that we see dramatized is  always seen as greater than the love we experience, and yet our love  can be deeper and more beautiful.  As our proverb teaches, "Anothers   rice cake seems bigger than our own." To be truly happy, he says, we  have to  jettison the misunderstanding and illusion that others have a more  beautiful happiness and greater love than we have.
As Jesus said, "Remember where your treasure is, there your heart is also." What we  think is important is where our heart will  be.  If we consider God  our treasure that is where our heart will be. This is also true with love and happiness. If we think that love and  happiness is somewhere  other than in us,  then we will never have it. 
What and where is our treasure? If we look for our treasure in  the world and in material things, we will  not find love and happiness in ourselves. We can  never find  satisfaction in things outside of ourselves. When our treasure is in  God, it is then that we become acquainted with love, and we learn that   giving, more than receiving, brings greater happiness. And in every  situation we will  know that we can find satisfaction and have the  opportunity to give thanks.
 
 
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