The domestic work of a homemaker has recently been given a monetary
value. Society does not consider a women's work in the home a career. For insurance purposes and accidents, women's work in the home is not
recognized nor when it comes to inheritance, division of property,
pension inheritance, or inherited status; this is still a work in process.
What can be said is that the making of meals, cleaning and washing is
very cheap labor when we give it a market value. A sociology professor
in a column in the Peace Weekly follows this with some of her reasons
for the low birthrate in Korea.
Today even the birth
and the raising of children is given a market value. This was not the
original intention but developed over time. No longer is a human being
considered as capital an awkward use of the word. The cost efficiency of
the investment in education within a project is seen with the future
return. We have those who are in the humanities who transfer to the
school of business. In the past there would be resistance to such a
move, this is no longer the case.
Marriage is now a
marketable item. When the writer was in college, a doctor's wife took
pride in her position even more so than being a doctor herself, which is
no longer the case. Today the women no longer vicariously take pride
in the work of their husbands, but want the status for themselves. When women are asked will it be marriage or a career the women answer
more than the men that they want a career. At present this reality has
slowed down somewhat because of the difficulty in finding a place in
society, and movement towards marriage is seen.
When
it comes to marriage they give a value to all their assets: education,
family status, income, and the like, considering anything that will give themselves a
higher grade. They don't want to underestimate their value when they go to the matchmaking companies. They have become a market commodity.
Does
not this mentality make it easy to understand the low birth rate? A
mother's love for her child even if it required her life was never
regretted in the world's folklore, but we see the woman being dragged
into a patriarchal way of thinking. If we give a monetary value to
giving birth and raising children, no government is able to have
policies that will compensate the sacrifice required. Calculations have
to give way to an interior value system.
We
need to go beyond the market values and start reflecting on the value
of life itself, and its meaning, and as a gift of the creator. We have
to see the birth of
children with a larger all comprehensive understanding of life.The columnist is a 'baby boomer' and was born during the Korean War. Her parents during this sterile time in our history opted to have a
child. The respect that these parents had for life has to be recovered
if we want to see an end to the low birthrate.
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