Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Working for the Common Good

Pope John XXIII defined the common good as "the sum total of social conditions which allow people, either as groups or as individuals, to reach their fulfillment more fully and more easily" (Pacem in Terris # 55). Common  good is a term that appears often in the social teaching of the Church and a basic  concept.

A priest with a doctorate in social studies and now working in the labor apostolate sees the lack of  sensitivity for the common good as one of the  primary reasons for the  MERS epidemic, contagion and death that resulted from the epidemic. He writes about the spread of MERS in his column, and gives a great deal of the blame to seeking efficiency over the common good.

Information on the spread of the disease, and the name of the hospitals involved was not made known at the start, and keeping this secret did much to help  the spread of the disease: more  concern for private issues than for the  common good.

The desire of the Church is to work in the area of the common good. He finds the government retreating in the areas  of public health and promoting private health endeavors. This he also sees as a reason for some of the problems experienced during the MERS epidemic.  

His thoughts come  from reflection on creation. God gave the goods of creation to all of us. We should all benefit: not especially difficult to understand. There are times when a decision made will result in a loss either materially or in humiliation, but the public good benefits. The columnist gives blame for the quick development of capitalism in society where efficiency is everything. Medical care, education, labor, and lodging all become commodities in the market, and those who are sacrificed for efficiency we do not see.

In conclusion, he wants us to learn a lesson from the MERS epidemic. More than to maximize efficiency in our society we need to increase our concern in working for the common good, which will promote a more peaceful life for all. Also help us to live according to the order of creation and the road  we Christians are called to follow.      

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Questionnaire on Godparents

Godparents for the baptized is a tradition seen in many Christian groups. Tertullian, in the 200s AD mentions the use of godparents in his book on Baptism. In the early Church the baptized were mostly adults, and had a godparent of the same sex. They assumed the responsibility as mentors for the newly baptized.

The Peace Weekly has a 'cover story' on godparents and their godchildren. Godparents are to guide their godchildren in the life of faith but this is not what happens. Often it is only a name that goes in the baptismal book, and merely a formality that one follows, without meaning. Godparents are to pray, and lead their godchildren in imitating Jesus but few take the responsibility with any seriousness.

The Weekly prepared a questionnaire that was given to 446 parishioners to determine the situation in the  present Church. According to the questionnaire over 50 percent have no contact with their godchild. 38 percent of the godchildren have no contact with their godparents. 15 percent do not  know who their  godparents are.

55 percent say the distancing from the  godparents came from the lack of contact. 25 percent said that they didn't know the  godparent when they were baptized so  quickly lost contact. To prevent this from happening a priest is quoted with five steps to be a  good godparent. Praying for the godchild, talk and listen to them, study to answer their  questions, introduce them to the liturgy of the Church, and keep in contact with the godchild. 

How is the situation  going to improve? One suggestion in the article from a Sunday school teacher recommends  to match the godparents with the ones to be baptized into three groups: infants and children, young people, and adults-- for infants close relatives, for young people Sunday school teachers and devoted young people, and  for adults, members of the different societies in parish communities. 

Serious efforts to change the way godparents are chosen and programs to educate those who are in such a spiritual relation will do much to change the atmosphere of a parish and make for a community of faith.                           

Monday, July 13, 2015

McCarthyism Syndrome

In the  question and answer section of the Peace Weekly a priest asks: In private conversations he is often asked why does the Catholic Church disregard the countries' security problems, and  continue to criticize the government. When he hears words which incites people he is upset but when he gets these questions he is at a loss for words, and feels silence is the best answer but remains irritated. 

The columnist understands his perplexity. He doesn't agree that the Church has no interest in security. Korea is surrounded by strong countries, and North Korea has has shown hostility to the South. No one wants to abandon our security. However, the Church's understanding of security is much more extensive than the ordinary citizen, and looks towards the future. Many see security only as related with Communism. 

He gives the example of the training of children in Japan.They are taught to be considerate of others. In order to get them accustomed to the cold, children wear short pants in the winter. They receive leadership courses, patience is considered a great virtue, and are taught frugality. There is a difference in the way we can look upon this formation: on the short term we can see the sincerity of the Japanese, in the long view we can see them wanting to form a strong populace, and in case of war be able to withstand the difficulties of daily life.  

The columnist  compares the Japanese children with Korean children. If the children does well in studies parents have a tendency to ignore their behavior. This later shows up in society. We have even in small things uncontrollable emotional outbursts, and those with little knowledge want to solve difficulties with emotions.

The Church is an alternative community which tries to deal with these problems. To have care for the other,  respect the other, to educate the whole person to live with others. It is  education for life. 

One of the maladies of our society is the  McCarthyism syndrome: (a witch hunt, unscrupulously accusing people of disloyalty by saying they were Communists). When we hear criticism of the government, persons speaking honestly and see a need to change certain behavior, we have those who consider it a subversive act. We still are dealing with this kind of thinking in Korea. It is an emotional problem.Those that point out the problems in government may truly love the country and are doing more for the security of the country than those who do not criticize.

We need to understand each other and respect each other's opinions.When we don't allow the others who think differently to speak and call them communists we are dividing the country, and we can see this happening in many countries of the world. As Christians we should see this kind of attitude as working against building the kind of world that God wants. 

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Why do we think we are always right?


In her column in the Peace Weekly the writer reminisces on the many people she has met, and lost contact with during her years of work. Of that number were some  she was able to speak to openly and frankly. She doesn't know why but  many of the relationships became awkward, and gradually the degree of coldness increased.

Just before retirement one of that group came to visit with the writer. She doesn't mention what instigated the unburdening of her pent up resentment but she fully expressed her feelings to the person. Made known her hurts, resentments, criticism, grudges-- all poured out in a short period of time, all  negative. However, she admits that the anger did not subside after it all came out. During the monologue the one-time intimate did express herself.

After retirement she did remember the words of the visitor that were expressed that day and they continued to reverberate in her head. The sentence that continued to bother her was: "Why do you  think that everything you do is right?"

When she let it all out, she also refuted this statement that was one of the retorts by the visitor and  her response did get the person to nod in agreement, but the words remained with her and continued to bother her. This is what they saw in her that prompted the estrangement: everything she thought, said and did  was seen as cold  hardheartedness by them, and now in every situation in all circumstances these words come to mind.

North and South Korea both have different understandings of the situation. The North and South have different ideologies, and is it not possible to say problems arise when we think that we always have the right answers? Isn't the  problem between the  North and South basically that each maintains they have all the answers to the problems and don't want to listen? And she concludes with the words of the Scriptures.

"Why look at the speck in your brother's eye when  you miss the plank in your own? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take that speck out of your eye while  all the time the plank remains  in your own?" (Matt. 7:3-4)

Saturday, July 11, 2015

Thoughts On a Visit to a Hospice


'In random thoughts on religion', the columnist in the Peace Weekly, writes about a woman who helped him in his work both materially and spiritually. She was told by her doctor she had about 15 days of life remaining. This news upset her greatly. She was far from her seventies; the news left her in shock. She attended Mass and went directly to the hospital.She never lost her dignity. She prayed earnestly for a cure and dreamed of returning to her former ways.

He heard that she was in hospice-care and went for a visit. "I don't want to die", "I want to live" were her words, said with very little strength. He visited her a number of times but all he could do was hold her hand and and say nothing. No words of consolation came from his lips. Our Lord hearing of the death of Lazarus and meeting Martha and Mary he cried. Because of the human condition and original sin we will all die. However, with the Resurrection of Jesus we have hope. Leaving the woman for the last time in hospice, he had the consolation she was going to a better life.  

Just recently he had two other friends who were  recently given a death sentence. He was at one time very close to them and both of them, not even in their 60s, were now in hospice care. The columnist  was overcome with a feeling of ingratitude towards one of them, and the other he grew apart because of his friend's uncontrolled temper. Hearing that they were in hospice-care he quickly went to visit them.  

In these times when we talk about people living to their hundreds it is a sad sight to see these men who where until recently men with great presence and   vigor who were haggard images of themselves. Seeing them in this condition brought tears to his eyes.

He wanted to bring them to a knowledge of faith and give them a reason to hope. In his own life the faith he had was a great consolation in facing death, and he wanted to bring up the issue but they were  in  pain and he felt it better to leave the job to their wives.  

He leaves us with the words of a Germain psycho physicist Gustave Fetcher: Man lives on earth three time,the first state is continual sleep in the womb. Second stage is the present where we sleep and awake in turns. The third stage is always awake. In the first state one is prepared with the organs of speech, sight, smell and hearing which will be used in the second stage. In the second stage preparation is made for the last stage. When the baby leaves the womb the transition is like a death to a new environment and new life. It begins with a cry and a whole new environment with laughter and joy. The third state is one we don't know much about,  full of peace and liberty.We see the last stage as one with a very narrow door and dark, but it is the way to eternal life.                                              

Friday, July 10, 2015

Unification of Korea

Korea's division into South and North has many intellectuals and authorities on the situation giving their opinions. An article in the Kyeongyang magazine by a student of the subject and a university professor gives us his ideas.

Right from the start he tells us of the difficulties of being objective because of the restrictions that we face in society. North Korea can be seen as a devil and should not be in the world order, this will influence the way the subject is approached. The other position wants reconciliation, cooperation and co-existence.

When Kim Il-sung died in 1994 and Kim Jong-il replaced him almost all the authorities said he wouldn't last  3 years. This opinion was a heart-felt desire, a subjective wish that overcame their thinking, which sadly is a self portrait of ourself and a good example of our inability to understand the North. Also the danger of wanting to white wash all that the North does, and not seeing the situation objectively, and taking everything we hear at face value is also not the way to go.

Many authorities have  varied opinions on the  situation in the North with Kim Jong-un. Recently we heard news of  purges of leaders in the government and the appearance of government by fear. Machiavelli is quoted as saying the prince rules the easiest when the citizens are in fear. But when the fear turns to hate problems arise which requires that the prince offset this fear with love and blessings.

The professor sees many different possible scenarios for the future relationship. And would like to see the kind of unification that happened in Germany without any blood being spilled  He wants a policy of engagement. The lack of a united position in the South is a great obstacle to the unification of the country. Many are the citizens who do not want the unification. We need to work for this unification among the citizens of the South, that will facilitate the unification of the country.

We need to do all possible to overcome the hostility and  confrontation between the North and South, It shouldn't matter whether the government of Kim Jong-un is stable or unstable, we have to prepare ourselves for reconciliation and cooperation, dialogue,  engagement and coexistence. And work for the realization of this dream.

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Downside of Being Rich

In the beginning of the 1960s per capita income in Korea was 100 dollars, in 2013 it was over 20,000 dollars. During the period of 40 years we have seen an increase of over 200 times. Briefly, many citizens have become 'rich overnight'. Sudden accumulation of wealth and new  social status brings new attitudes: self importance, different from others, wanting respect, and the desire to show off the wealth and separate themselves from others.

A university rector brings this reality to the attention of the readers in an opinion column in the Catholic Times. We see this in individuals who become overnight millionaires but also true of a country-- immaturity, confusion and anxiety.

Koreans he says are absorbed with the myth of success. Society does look down upon failures which  promotes the myth of success. Sadly, this thinking has  entered the world of religion. Imported from the  States in the last decades is the power of positive thinking, the  ideology that has moved much of Korea: personal development, happiness evangelizers, and the feel good understanding of life. 

Like a flood this enters our businesses, our churches, and even the academies of learning. Much of this positive thinking has worked. Like a panacea--we are dealing with the placebo effect. What is the object of the positive thinking?  Positive thinking is the motivating force that energizes one to overcome difficulties and  moves the will and gives hope, but it can also be the driving force for ambition and the spirit of greed. 

'Feel good' understanding of religion can be pervasive in society. The power of positive thinking is important but it is not religion. Life is not the thirst for continual prosperity and health. This religion of prosperity is not the longing  for the  eternal but  attachment to the transient and ignoring our follow citizens and matters of justice. God is often used as a tool and as a means to attain success and prosperity. 

Newly rich do not realize they are being controlled by an inordinate emotion. In their new culture of wealth they do not realize they are not being 'more' but losing what they were made to be. Consequently, the uncontrollable passion for education, extreme competition, and many of the  abuses that we have in society.

We need to have a win/win understanding of culture, with the teaching of wisdom enabling us to live together with others, and he concludes that this should be the aim and duty of Christianity.